I turned down a scholarship at UPenn to attend the more expensive Columbia. I still wonder if I made the right choice.

The author chose Columbia University over a scholarship at the University of Pennsylvania. Courtesy of Santiago Barraza Lopez When I applied to grad school, I knew I wanted to go to Columbia University in New York City. But then the University of Pennsylvania offered me a scholarship that would reduce my costs. I still chose Columbia because of the New York prestige, but I wonder if I made the right choice. When I decided to pursue a master's degree in the US, I was not simply looking for a good school. I had built up an idea of what studying there could mean for my career and, if I am being honest, for my life. I applied to several universities, but Columbia University and New York were the dream I had absorbed from years of movies and television while growing up in Mexico. The other schools felt like alternatives until the University of Pennsylvania unexpectedly offered me a $40,000 scholarship and forced me to ask how much that dream was actually worth. Philly made me question my New York dream Until UPenn's offer arrived, I had never really forced myself to interrogate why I wanted New York so badly. Columbia had the prestige I was looking for, but it also came wrapped in a city I had romanticized for years. I had treated those two things as one package and assumed they were worth paying for. Penn changed the equation. Philadelphia was not the city I had fantasized about, but UPenn was every bit the kind of elite institution I had wanted. More importantly, the scholarship turned an abstract alternative into a serious option. Suddenly, I could get the academic credibility I was chasing without taking on the same financial burden. That mattered because I did not come from money. I had saved, but I knew an American master's degree meant much more than tuition: rent, insurance, flights, food, and a year away from full-time work. For the first time, I had to separate what I actually needed for my career from what I simply wanted because I had fallen in love with the idea of New York. I still chose Columbia because New York felt like part of the education In the end, I followed my instinct and chose Columbia. The decision was not financially comfortable. Once I sat down and compared the two options properly, I realized New York would require me to borrow money, while Penn's scholarship would let me begin the degree from a much stronger financial position. I knew I was choosing the more expensive path. What tipped the balance was that I did not see New York as just the place where Columbia happened to be. I saw the city itself as part of what I was paying for. I wanted to study law there, but I also wanted to understand its legal market, meet people working in it, and experience the professional world I hoped to enter. In many ways, that instinct proved right. I built relationships there, eventually worked in New York, and had experiences outside the classroom that became central to what came next. But New York also taught me something I had not expected: the life I had idealized was not necessarily the life I wanted forever. I loved the city's ambition and energy, but eventually realized its relentless hustle culture was not for me. I later moved to London, changed jobs, and built a career that looks very different from what I imagined when I was choosing between UPenn and Columbia. So, was it all worth it? I don't regret Columbia, but I'm still paying for the choice I know Columbia gave me a lot. Studying law in the US exposed me to a more practical and participatory style of legal education and helped prepare me for an international career. I am grateful for that experience, and I do not regret having gone. But COVID made the financial side of my decision harder to ignore. I had chosen the more expensive option partly because I wanted everything that came with being at Columbia and in New York. Then the pandemic changed university life almost overnight. Had I chosen UPenn, I would still have lived through those same disruptions, but I would have done so with a scholarship and more money left in my pocket. Looking back, that difference feels much more significant than it did when I was making the decision. Years later, I am still paying off two loans from my studies. Columbia helped shape the life and career I have now, and I am grateful I chose it. But every loan payment is also a reminder that UPenn offered me another route, one I will never know the outcome of. Read the original article on Business Insider

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